melissa pennel November 26, 2017 death, grief, memory, love, mother, daughter, lessons, time, loss What I've Learned Through Forgetting My Mother melissa pennel November 26, 2017 death, grief, memory, love, mother, daughter, lessons, time, loss In the four years since she's been gone, I've forgotten a lot. But there are some things that even a poor memory won't allow you to forget.